not feeling physically attracted during first date but ticking all the boxes in what i look for in a partner. what now?
had a first date yesterday with a really sweet guy who i’ve been talking to for 2 weeks now. good conversation even deep conversations and laughter but i felt no physical attraction.
i don’t even think he is unattractive, i just did not feel any desire to touch him or let him touch me in any way.
i feel bad about it because he’s kind, caring, really wants to get to know me, expresses he likes me, has his life together, is into sport, likes the same things i like, basically ticks a lot of the boxes in what i look for in a men.
i did talk to him about not being sure if i felt the connection; he was super polite about it and said i can always speak about my feelings.
what do i do from here? give it another chance or just stick by my feeling? i just feel like if there is no physical attraction from my side it feels doomed.
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